Thursday, May 22, 2025

Gardening Southern-Style: May Garden

 GARDENING SOUTHERN-STYLE: MAY GARDEN

I now understood what Celestine Sibley meant when in the first line of her book she writes, A Place Called Sweet Apple. "The sin of pride was upon me."


SLEEP, CREEP, LEAP is a phrase you must remember when planting anything. The first year it will sleep, the next year it will creep and the third year you have it planted it will leap. Or so successful gardeners will tell you!

So now many of my lovingly planted seedlings and plants were blooming-- and it made my heart sing. The sin of pride was definitely upon me. My back yard had undergone a transformation to enable me to travel through my garden. The brick patio was original to the home my husband and I purchased in 2019. My husband passed away in 2020 and I immediately turned to gardening to occupy my mind and time. 


Now comes the preparation for the new garden.




As you can see, when we purchased the home it was beautiful, but without the flower beds or structures. We brought the gazebo (a gift for my 50th birthday when our home sat on 2 acres) to this property. You 
do not see it yet, but we also brought the playhouse with us that now has a pergola attached. The two metal arches also came from that property when we planted a Monet Garden along with Dothan Nurseries 
with Joanne McFarland guiding the seed planting there in the front yard. Both arbors have Confederate 
Jasmine and roses, the one closest has a Generous Gardener rose.


Comfortable seating is placed on the brick patio to listen to the birds and look at the roses and seedlings now plants. 



Raoul Dahl, an apricot David Austin rose, and the yellow Julia Child (on the left) tree rose love their 
place in the sun. The Iceberg tea rose to the right is a Kordes rose developed by the German Reimer Kordes. The David Austin roses I planted a couple of years ago are: 
Constant Gardener
Thomas a Beckett
Darcy Bussell
Benjamin Britten
Rouol Dahl


Jude the Obscure
Lady of Shallot
Olivia Rose Austin
Queen of Sweden
Ancient Mariner
Winchester Cathedral

I have been reading THE SECRET LIFE OF PLANTS. If you are a gardener or just someone interested
in the stories of living beings, plants included and our relationship to them, I recommend it! 

Winchester Cathedral has a story. She was originally planted on the far left of the picture above. I noticed 
she was reaching for the sun and not blooming very well. That was one reason I redesigned this part of
the bed. There were several others that I had to replant because they didn't like their spot. They had been
moved to other parts of the garden, but still didn't prosper. My back yard is 
pretty shady. When the 
landscape people came, they limbed up the trees and cut back the ligustrum. Sun streamed on the shady
places, mushroom compost enriched a bed where Winchester Cathedral could be in the sun. So I moved
it and I thought she would be happy there. Unfortunately, some ant like thing invaded the hole in which
she was planted. I picked her up and moved her to another spot. Unfortunately, she lost all of her leaves 
there. I looked at her one day and thought she had had it. I would just have to pull her and dispose of her.
The next day I went out she not only had leaves but she had branches. OVERNIGHT! 

The Secret Life of Plants reveals to us how we communicate with plants.  Somehow plants know. And
Winchester Cathedral knew my intent leafed out so I knew it still had life. And now it blossoms out 
with the most beautiful blooms. 


In the process of preparing the ground for my pathways some of the bulbs already planted there like the twelve apostles given to me by family friend, Mary Kirkland, had been divided and divided. They were once again divided along with  some iris that had lost their previous home and some daylilies. From the look of that leaf, one of the bulbs I thought was a lily must be an elephant ear.  These plants line the new patio in the center of my yard that my new flower beds (enriched with a load of mushroom compost), have been created.  You will notice the different leaves that are planted among them. These were seedlings I planted in compostable pots and nurtured under the grow lights in my bathroom where my African violets now abide. You will see that these are quite vigorous. 



Caladiums are slowly popping up in this urn. You will see some of my favorite tools: the post hole digger, the hula hoe and the dog poo picker upper. 



Here you see those seedlings that I planted in peat pots and transplanted directly in the ground. The smaller ones were planted in a regular seed planters purchased at the Dollar Store. I wanted to plant them and grow them so I could be better acquainted with seeds versus weeds. (I don't think I was successful)


Here I will note that one of the major things my landscape guy, Matt Cardin, had his people do was to limb up the trees in the center of the yard and trim the Ligustrum on both sides.  Now a path lead to the concrete bench. The New Dawn rose came with the arbor and got transplanted in the sun and now blooms much more happily than the it was under the tree. I also planted a Nellie Moser Clematis. Amazingly the Confederate Jasmine on the left has also survived transplant and seems to be prospering. I planted a Jackmanii clematis to climb up the Confederate Jasmine.

 My granddaughter, Megan, helped me plant the leftover seeds directly into the soil at the end of March. We put sand in a large container and decided to add all the seeds rather than focus on individual types of seeds. We shook it up and spread the seeds on the right side flower bed.  Megan then spread the zinnia seeds I got at the Dollar Store. Zinnias were my Grandmother Burson's favorite flowers so they will become a staple for my garden. Zinnia now grow inside the arbor and within the beds.

Old Fashioned Garden Mix
Calendula
Soapwort
Scarlet Flax
Malope
Wallflower 
Chinese Houses
Caliopsis
California poppy
Love in the Mist
Everlasting
Babys Breath
Cosmos
Shasta Daisies
Papaver Rhoas
Bachelor Buttons
California Poppy
Delphinium
Mallow
Black-eyed Susan
Painted Daisy
Blanket Flower
English Daisy
Zinnias

 


As you can see, those directly sown seeds are not nearly as large as the seedlings grown inside in the peat pots or the seed trays or the winter sowing efforts. Here you see the beautiful purple hydrangea in the back of my yard. To the left you will see the gorgeous drift roses planted quite soon when we moved into this house To the right is the former playhouse now she shed with the pergola.  

The terra cotta pots are filled with herbs to make tea with. 


Here you see another view of the directly sown seedlings. We also have a camellia that was not doing well elsewhere and was transplanted here out of the hot direct sun of the front yard. Behind the directly sown seeds is my new effort with dahlias. In this bed I have also planted some hardy geraniums (much loved in English gardens), echinacea, and a plant loved by Laura on Garden Answer--a Chitalpa. I also ordered from Jenny with Gardening with Creekside another tree, Temple of Bloom. You Tube shows on gardening like Garden Answer and Gardening with Creekside are inspirational.

Sage "Rocking the Blues" (Gardening with Creekside)
Denim and Lace  Salvia (Braces

Multi Colored Geranium (Bricks)
White Jubilation Jardenias (Lowes online)
Sedum
100 Gladiolus bulbs and 3 Garden amaryllis
Hawaiian Punch Elephant Ear
Multicolor Colocasia Waikiki
Pink Caladium Bulbs
Multicolor Colocasia Maceira Star Elephant Ear
Pink Cannas Dwarf Pink Futurity

Black Magic Elephant Ear

Schneider's Irises
Breck's Coneflowers



Here we are looking across the patio and see the Twelve Apostles lilies growing under the tree with the lady at the well statue. The large yellow urn is surrounded by Rocking the Blues salvia, anemones and little lime hydrangea. A bed of daylilies are to the right with the gazing globe. Gardenias form a sort of hedge dividing the new garden area from the old lawn and daylilly garden.

Molly and I bought these Daylillies on our trip to the daylily garden. 

Accent on Style
Altered State
Gypsy Rose Lee
Javanese Jewel
Jay Turman 
Look Here Mary
Mama's Cherry Pie
Orange Velvet
Pastel Classic
Pearlfisher Pink
Ruffles Have Ripples
Small Gestures
Two to Tango
Tuscovilla Snowdrift
Victorian Lace 
Signature Truffles



From the pergola you can see my efforts at the beginning of a fruit orchard. Near the large yellow urn is an apple tree. The other apple tree on the other side did not survive. Directly opposite here in the daylily garden is a fruit cocktail tree. On the other side of the fence, in the front yard, I planted a pear and a plum tree. I will wait until fall to purchase replacement trees for the apple and the peach that did not make it. Behind the yellow pot grows little lime hydrangeas, ligustrum, and azaleas. I will wait until fall to plant replacement trees. The fig tree is every happy there on the corner of the house. Unfortunately, I have failed once again with my attempt at growing blue berries. One plant survived but the one he was intended to pollinate with did not.

My granddaughters helped me plant the 100 gladiolus bulbs scattered in the daylily bed and in the bed leading to the gate. 

Ferny yarrow has shown up throughout the daylily garden. 

The grass here is regrowing after being a part of the construction of the garden.  Directly before us is a butterfly garden with lantana, agapanthus, butterfly weed and a baby forsythia that will be beautiful next year. (above)


The pavers have certainly improved getting around in the back yard. Formerly the playhouse, now the she shed with a pergola. the generous gardener and confederate rose may someday cover the pergola but I think that is Virginia Creeper. Gardeners must deal with the strangest things.













Here beneath the buzzing of the many bees that adore the Vitex, bulbs have been planted in the pots but are taking their time popping up out of the soil. However the pink cashmere verbena looks lovely front of the Black Magic elephant ear. 

Daylilies came from Enterprise at the Neighborhood Daylily Farm on a trip with granddaughter, Molly.



Perfecto Mundo double white azalea
George Tabor are the white azaleas along back
Vince Dooley Reticulata
Frank Howser is a reticulate camellia named for the doctor who oversaw the medical
evacuation of wounded soldiers at the Battle of the Bulge  where my mother served.
Merry Christmas
Mary Ann Lawrence
Robin Ann Cross
Lemon Glow
Betty Sheffield, Professor Sergeant and Pink Perfection were camellias in most
older Dothan gardens. 
Betty Sheffield
Prof. Sargeant
Pink Perfection 
Miss Santa Clara
Mine No Yoko (white sasanqua on north side)
October Magic Ruby (red against the back wall)

Blushing Bride Hydrangea
Limelight Prime on South

Variety of daffodils: 
Buttterfly, Pink, Fragrant, Deluxe Double 
Hyacinth

True Blue Butterfly Bush 
Vibernum (aka snowball)

Hibiscus Pink Paraplu is new to our yard. I also ordered some hibiscus seeds and all three
granddaughters helped me plant them in some peat pots. They have joined the African Violets
under the grow lights with my African violets. 



The photo below shows the raised beds Megan and I planted. In the right bed, she planted all the lettuce
seeds I had collected over the years, In the left bed, I planted the spinach seeds I had collected. 
Megans seeds grew well. My spinach seeds did not grow, period! So I planted nasturtiums. I added 
half a bag of compost. The nasturtiums seem to like that spot. And I LOVE nasturtiums. 




When one plants a garden there is always something to look forward to. People who plant gardens
are optimists. "A thing of beauty is a joy forever" (John Keats)

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The Vitex is so beautiful! Sitting here one gets a view of the whole garden.



























Saturday, May 17, 2025

Gardening Southern-Style Senior Style


Gardening in the South changes when one ages. I am now seventy-five years old. Two hip replacements and two knee replacements (one winding up with a drop foot that is now doing well), and peripheral neuropathy have changed my gardening process.  I want to share with you some garden aids. 

1. Okay, this looks like your regular walker for some old person. Close your eyes. Now open them again with a fresh perspective. This item can also be used as a place to sit to pull weeds, or cool off and look at all you have accomplished, or plan what next to do. It is also a wonderful way to push items from one place in the yard to another. 


Lift the seat and you have a fantastic place to store tools you will need throughout the yard. 

I emptied mine and this is what I found.


Rose Gloves, insect spray, the metal identification labels I have been looking for, insect spray

Clippers, and pruners

Coffee filters to put in the bottom of a pot to replace stones or broken pottery


My hori-hori (the knife in the leather sheath), metal identification labels, with pen and more clippers


2.  This is a reusable pop up garden bag. It is lightweight and a tremendous assist in keeping things neat when pulling weeds, pruning, deadheading...Lying beside it is my new hula hoe with a long handle to help me reach what I need to reach to get at those pesky weeds.




3. This is an augur to attach to your drill. (Ladies, get your husband to instruct you on the use of the drill before he passes away. This is a necessary skill.) I use this to plant the many bulbs I plant...daffodils, hyacinths, etc. 



4. Another gadget I have found quite helpful in the garden is the grabber that was in my care package after my first hip replacement. When I dig the hole with the augur I grab the bulb right side up and drop it in the hole. I can do this sitting down!





5.  The popup garden bag is lightweight and perfect for holding weeds you've pulled, roses you have deadheaded or pruned, and other trash you must pick up as you go about the yard. 








6. Perhaps you might want to do as  I did and have your yard redesigned to include pavers and paths to make your garden more accessible for that walker I first mentioned. We also added a lot of mushroom compost.